The kids were overjoyed on Thanksgiving morning when the doorbell rang and they found two little suitcases sitting on the porch. Eddie and Ellie are back!
This year, Santa sent new outfits for each elf to keep them warm, along with a note and an animated Elf Magic DVD.
We had a family outing to the movies, and the elves accompanied us, bundled in their new “elfits.” Frozen, by the way, is delightful.
One year ago today, my son lost his best friend. Xander‘s last act upon this earth was holding a 3-year-old girl above the water so that she could breathe, while he drowned.
Xander’s parents have been such an inspiration to us over the past year. They have found the strength not only to move forward in the midst of a heart-wrenching tragedy, but also to use their son’s memory to make the world a better place. They strive each day to emulate Xander’s compassionate nature, and have continually worked toward saving lives and making a difference in the lives of others.
In a similar vein, we wished to honor Xander’s memory today, and decided to implement what we have started calling “Xander Day.” Jens and I both took off work today, so we had a full day at our disposal. Every member of our family brainstormed to come up with acts of kindness we could carry out throughout the day.
We also made donations to Goodwill. We took a big box of shoes and clothes, Kaelin donated some books, and Koren picked out some toys to give. The kids even managed to do kind things for each other. Koren took the initiative to go ask the hostess for a coloring page for Kaelin while we were at lunch, and Kaelin later volunteered to help Koren clean a mess he had made in the pantry.
It’s been a busy day, but one full of blessings. Many of our neighbors weren’t home, so we branched out and met some people on our street that we don’t know. We even discovered that one of our neighbors knew Xander as well. And it warmed my heart so much to see the kids doing things for each other, and also making other people smile. Today was an example to us that sometimes God can make blessings bloom in the midst of tragedy, and I hope that we are able to continue this tradition as we honor Xander’s memory in the future. As always, we’re keeping Xander’s family in our thoughts and prayers, and look forward to spending some time with them soon.
And now I need to go put up the leftover cookies to keep my kids from raiding them.
Ok, first and most importantly, we FINALLY got the air conditioning fixed, after over a week. I don’t have a picture of that because… well, I can’t think of a good reason to take a picture of an air conditioner.
But on to the rest of the day.
We started the event off with come-and-go crafts and activities, so kids could kind of pick what they were interested in. I somehow managed to wrangle a very brave friend to come help supervise the activities (thanks Aubree!!!) and kind of turned the kids loose in the sunroom. Activities included assembling pterodactyl gliders (which I apparently don’t have any pictures of), as well as:
Painting sun catchers:
And this funny little dinosaur stand-up that I got on a last-minute whim, but that the kids seemed to really enjoy more than I thought they would:
Naturally, with all this to offer, the thing the kids found most fascinating was the playhouse that resides in our sunroom. But hey, I had 19 kids in my sunroom and they were entertained. I still call that a win.
Next was the highlight of the party: the Dino Dig. We buried the bones of a T-Rex skeleton model in a sandbox in the back yard, and set the kids loose, equipped with shovels and brushes.
Our Junior Paleontologists found all 30 or so bones in a few minutes, and had a great time up to their elbows in the sand.
Koren even found the skull, which was very exciting.
After we hosed everybody down (literally), it was time for some food.
Other than the traffic problem, this worked remarkably well. We didn’t even have any spilled punch, which was nothing short of a miracle, IMHO. Koren took it upon himself to serve all his friends punch, and did an excellent job.
They even liked the party hats.
This was probably the quietest part of the party, and all the adults were able to visit because they could finally hear each other for the first time. The chaos was well-managed throughout the party and the kids were well-behaved… but frankly, when you put 19 kids in an enclosed metal sunroom, the noise is going reach some really ungodly decibel levels.
Pretty soon, it was time for the piñata. I had a terrible time finding a dinosaur piñata this year, and of couse as SOON as I purchased this monstrosity,
I walked into Target the next day to find the PERFECT dinosaur piñata that even matched our colors. But by that point, Koren had already fallen in love with the Red Giant (which was nearly as tall as he is), so we used it anyway, and Perfect Piñata got relegated to Table Decor Piñata.
Every kid got a turn to smack the piñata and Kaelin finally busted it open. The kids swarmed in on the downfall of candy and it was all collected in about .3 seconds
And last but not least, it was time for CAKE!
Koren loved his Volcano/Fossil cake… and by the looks of it, some other people liked it too.
By the time everyone finished their dessert, the party was basically over. It was a whirlwind hour-and-a-half, but the kids seemed to really have a great time. And my son has a really cute group of friends.
And with that, this Dinosaur party was history. A special thanks to Jens for helping me decorate and clean, and a HUGE Thankyouicouldneverhavepulleditoffwithoutyou to Aubree for dedicating her time to supervising kids, cleaning up, protecting my camera and carpet from mayhem, making things transition smoothly, and generally keeping my sanity in tact during this crazy adventure!
Happy 5th Birthday, Koren! I love you! And Mama needs a nap now.